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Your OBSESSION with Her Body Count is Making You INSECURE

The Josh Speaks
4 min readNov 25, 2023

If you’re the type of guy who jumps into the question, “What’s your body count?” when you’re on a date with a girl to qualify whether or not you want to continue seeing her, you might be operating from a place of insecurity.

Now, I know that sets off all the alarms. There are tons of guys who are going to attack me in the comments, but let me tell you why you’re being insecure and what you could do about it.

I’ve been having this discussion with tons of guys on my previous video all about body count where they come up with all kinds of reasons why they don’t believe it’s insecurity.

They’ll say things like they’re just “disgusted with a girl” or “she’s more likely to cheat on you” or “It’s evolution. There’s a biological reason why we don’t want to date girls who have been with other guys in the past.”

The one argument that I feel isn’t rooted in insecurity is that you may be seeking someone with similar sexual experience to your own. You want to be with a partner where both of you can share those first…

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The Josh Speaks
The Josh Speaks

Written by The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com

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