Your Crush Will 100% ALWAYS Reject You If You Do This

The Josh Speaks
5 min readApr 27, 2021

Whenever you see a super hot girl that you want to approach and ask out, do you ever get that nervous feeling aside that if you go for it she might just reject you? It’s a totally normal feeling to have but what if I were to tell you that you can decrease the chances of getting rejected just by changing up how you go about asking them out?

Stop building up the big ask

The biggest mistake that you’re probably making is building up “the ask” as if it were this huge monumental event.

And I get it. It takes a lot of courage and confidence in yourself to finally put yourself out there and be vulnerable. No doubt about that but the problem here is is that you’re letting things lead up to this grand yes or no claim and that’s the big mistake.

I feel like we’ve been conditioned by tv and movies and society, in general, to believe that the big monumental moment is asking them out and getting them to say yes but what that really does is puts a lot of pressure on you and that person.

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The Josh Speaks
The Josh Speaks

Written by The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com

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