Why Your Crush Keeps Running Back To Their Ex (Make Them Want YOU)

The Josh Speaks
6 min read3 days ago

Have you ever had a crush on someone already in a relationship with someone you felt was the completely wrong partner for them?

They constantly fought and argued. They would break up and get back together. They were doomed from the start, and you know you would make a better partner. But for some reason, they don’t give you a chance.

Why is that? Why do they keep going back to that person?

There’s a simple reason for that and something you can do to have a better chance of dating that person.

Comfort and familiarity

The reason why they keep going back to that person is because there’s a sense of comfort and familiarity there. They have a history with each other. They have shared experiences. They’ve probably been together long enough to know enough details about the other person to feel like there’s a deeper personal connection that the rest of the world doesn’t understand.

Unresolved feelings

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The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com