Why Women IGNORE You Even Though You’re a Great Guy

The Josh Speaks
6 min readMay 25, 2024

Have you ever been turned down by a girl even though you meet all the criteria for what she’s looking for in a guy? Someone funny, kind, smart, and good-looking.

You might think to yourself, what is wrong here? I am the perfect match for her. Now the issue isn’t so much that you don’t check off all the right boxes, but she doesn’t have that deeper sense of attraction for you.

Attraction is about way more than finding the right person.

It’s about finding the person that makes you feel right, and that’s what’s lacking. For her to have a real sense of attraction for you, she needs to have an emotional response every time she sees you, talks to you and thinks about you.

You could be a guy who sounds good on paper, but it’s not enough for her to consider you to be a potential boyfriend. She needs to feel something when she’s with you, and there are ways that you can make that happen.

Make her feel desired

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The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com