Should a Girl’s Body Count Matter? Here’s The TRUTH!

Why are so many guys obsessed with a woman’s body count? It’s as if he’s determining her value and worth as a potential partner based on her past sexual history which to me doesn’t make much sense. So why do guys care?

Well, here’s the truth…

The girl with the high body count

There’s a girl who I’m friends with who has a pretty high body count. She’s been with a number of guys and when she finally met a guy that she wanted to be in a relationship with, he wanted to be in one with her too but he didn’t want to put the label of boyfriend and girlfriend on it because he was a bit intimidated by the number of guys she had been with before him.

He wanted to date her and he wanted exclusivity in their relationship but only on her end. Because she had been with so many guys before him, he felt like he needed to catch up before he can actually call her his girlfriend. Now, she really liked him and she wanted to be with him so she was okay with that.

The problem is that he just wasn’t pulling girls at the rate that he thought he would be. So, she waited. Year after year, hoping that he would change his mind. They remained in this weird ambiguous place where they were dating but not dating. And all it did was breed more anger and resentment on his end because he wasn’t able to match her number. He cared about her, and he wanted to be with her but this was the thing that held them back from having a healthy and happy relationship.

I think a lot of guys who paint themselves into this corner where they are worried about a girl’s body count do nothing but invite stress into their own lives, become more susceptible to myths and stereotypes, and overall just take a negative perspective on dating in general.

Does a high body count mean the girl is “used up”?

One of the things I’ve read in lots of comments regarding women who have a high body count is that…