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My Crush Ignores My DMs, What Do I Do?!
Have you ever sent a DM to your crush only to just not get any type of response back from them? It’s like they just left you on read or ghosted you completely. If you‘re not sure what you can do when your crush doesn’t respond back to your DMs, I want you to know it’s not hopeless.
Now the first thought that might run through your mind when you don’t get a response back from them is:
What did I do wrong?
Did I say something, did I do something?
Why aren’t they responding?
And this is pretty typical right? You start to think that you messed up along the way instead of really thinking of some other potential things that might be causing them to not respond.
We really do live in a world where people expect instant gratification, meaning if I send you a message and even if you look at that message I’m expecting a response back when I want it but one thing we have to remember is that not everyone is ready to go into a text conversation. Not everyone is ready to respond to someone or not everyone knows exactly what they want to say.
There have been plenty of times where people text me something, I read that message and I tell myself okay I’m gonna respond to this when I have the time and energy to invest in that conversation…
