If You’re a Dry Texter, Here’s How To Get Them To Respond

The Josh Speaks
5 min readJul 7, 2020
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Have you ever been texting your crush only for that conversation to fall flat? For things to go dry? For you to run out of things to say that prevent you from keeping the conversation going?

One important thing for you to remember is that every text conversation has its own shelf-life.

In the beginning, the conversation may pick up in a way that they are super interactive, and respond quickly but there is a point at which if conversations don’t elevate to the next stage, they’re going to start to drop off, they’re going to start responding less.

You’re going to start to notice them less involved in wanting to talk to you and the conversations going to start to dry out. So, how do you kind of water the conversation and bring it back to life?

Tip #1: Use a throwback statement

Look back at the conversation you were having with your crush, find something that the two of you agreed on, something you joked about, something that the two of you made your own inside joke and bring that back into the topic of conversation now. Now it might seem weird to just bring up something from the past but it really all depends on how you choose to word it so I would say it like this:

“Hey, I was just thinking about the…

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The Josh Speaks
The Josh Speaks

Written by The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com

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