How To NOT Lose Your Friends When You Start Dating Someone

The Josh Speaks
5 min readJun 1, 2024

Did you know that when you finally find someone that you can enter into a relationship with, some of your friends are going to be incredibly jealous? Some might try to sabotage you, and others are just going to abandon you completely.

Why do friendships fall apart when people start dating? There’s actually a pretty good reason for this, and there are a few things that you can do to prevent it from happening to you so you can maintain your friends and your next potential partner.

Balancing friends and a relationship

Something we like to tell ourselves is that whether you’re with your friends or your boyfriend or girlfriend, you’re going to be the same exact person. In fact, you can take the two groups and merge them together, and everything’s going to be fine.

But the reality is a lot more complex. You see, the dynamic you have with your friends will be different from the one you have with your boyfriend or girlfriend. So, you may feel a different kind of urge to be yourself in…

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The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com