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How To INSTANTLY Know If a Girl Is Not Interested Over Text

Have you ever texted a girl back and forth thinking everything was going well when suddenly she hit you with one of these types of messages?

Ouch. How do you respond? I mean what do you say? Where does the conversation go from here? You might feel like the conversation is instantly over like she doesn’t want to talk to you and there’s a way to figure that out and a way to bring it back to life. I’m gonna explain how.
If you ever feel like texting someone you like is an uphill battle just to get these one-word answers and responses from them ask yourself do my conversations have these three elements?
#1: Does the message you’re sending her have substance?
Is it something worth opening and reading and actually responding to? You might be thinking to yourself of course it does, I asked her how her day was or I asked her what she’s up to but those aren’t messages of substance.
What you’re really doing is flipping the conversation back onto the other person and making them have to share something interesting with you just to keep it going.
If I message you asking you how your day is going and you give me a boring answer and say you didn’t do anything the conversation is over so I’m putting the burden on you to actually say something of substance and meaning when I should be the one bringing the substance to the table.
#2: Are you texting her something that provides direction for the conversation, or are you just sharing a statement of fact?
Something she can just double tap, like, and then that be the end of it. Providing direction means being incredibly thoughtful about the questions that you ask her, what…