How To Get Over Your FEAR of Texting Girls (Step-By-Step Guide)

The Josh Speaks
5 min readSep 23, 2023

Have you ever felt nervous about the idea of texting a girl because you didn’t know what to say to win her over or to get her to like you back?

Figuring out how to text a girl can be complicated, especially when you don’t know the most common challenges that guys run into when it comes to texting. Let me teach you exactly what those are and how to crack her texting code.

Challenge #1: Being afraid to send that first text

Perhaps the biggest challenge that most guys run into is the fear of rejection. Even before you start texting her, you have that fear built inside that she may not respond. She may not like you. She may not want to talk to you at all. And that fear can lead to overthinking, self-doubt, and just flat-out criticism of yourself, even before you’ve said, “Hey.”

If you don’t take a chance here, then you’re never gonna know if that texting conversation could have led to something. Put yourself out there, take a chance, and try something so you at least…

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The Josh Speaks
The Josh Speaks

Written by The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com

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