How To Get a Girl If You’re a NICE Guy (Stop Doing THIS!)

The Josh Speaks
5 min readFeb 12, 2022

When it comes to pursuing a girl that you like you’ve probably heard the phrase “nice guys finish last”. There is this underlying idea in society that nice guys never get the girl and that you actually need to be a bad boy in order for a girl to like you. I’m here to tell you it’s just not true.

Being a bad boy is not going to get you the girl but neither will be a “nice guy” so what’s the in-between? How do you actually get with a girl and get her interested in you in a way where you’re not compromising who you are? Let me explain.

I think the term “nice guy” has a major branding problem.

When you think of a “nice guy”, do you think of someone who is timid, shy, awkward, and nervous all the time? All of those qualities definitely embody what may come across as conventionally unattractive but that to me doesn’t signify nice.

When I think of someone who’s nice, I think of someone who’s caring, understanding, and just makes you feel super comfortable to be around them. If…

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The Josh Speaks
The Josh Speaks

Written by The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com

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