Curiosity is the KEY to Dating Success (How to Flip Her Attraction Switch)

The Josh Speaks
5 min readSep 7, 2024

It isn’t easy sometimes to figure out how to convince a girl to go out on a date with you. Do you make up the plans beforehand and then invite her, or do you work with her to develop something together?

There’s a little technique that I used to use back in the day that guaranteed that I had fun and interesting dates with every girl that I went out with.

The best part is none of them knew that I was doing it.

Back in the day, there was a girl that I was interested in dating from the neighborhood. So what I set out to do was to discover one interesting thing about something that she liked. That one thing for her just happened to be Twilight.

She was obsessed with the movies and the books. For me, vampire love stories weren’t my thing, but because I knew she liked it so much, I gave her the space to share her fandom with me. I started asking her questions about who the main characters were, what were the plots of the books, and how they differed from the movies. I gave her this…

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The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com