Approach ANY Girl You Want Using the 3-Second Rule

The Josh Speaks
4 min readFeb 18, 2023

Imagine you’re walking down the hallway in your school when you spot your crush. You’re taken aback by how beautiful she is. You just want to walk up to her, start talking, and ask her out but your nerves are getting the best of you.

What if I were to tell you the best thing you can do at that moment is to follow the three-second rule? Don’t know what it is? Let me break it down so that you can do it the next time you see her.

The three-second rule is basically this, whenever you see a girl that you want to talk to give yourself no more than three seconds to start approaching her.

A lot can happen in those three seconds and you don’t want your mind to start wandering into all the possibilities as to why things can go wrong.

Literally, it’s as simple as saying there she is, I want to talk to her, one, two, three, go! Start moving your feet and start heading in her direction because if you pause, if you hesitate, everything is going to go wrong.

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The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com