5 Ways To Control Your Feelings For Your Crush

The Josh Speaks
7 min readSep 20, 2019
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Do you ever find yourself getting completed mixed up in your emotions whenever you’re around your crush? It’s like you can’t control how you feel and you want to be able to do that.

Emotions can be tricky, it’s not like you can just snap your fingers and turn off how you feel. Instead what you need to do is understand and process what you’re going through because once you can do that, then it’s a lot easier to move forward and feel something else.

One of the main emotions people feel around their crush is anxiety, just being in their presence, seeing them at all can make you feel incredibly anxious. You don’t know what to do, you don’t know how to talk to them, you don’t even know how to act when you’re around them. And this is a major problem being it’s gonna hold you back from walking up to your crush and talking to them. And if you never talk to your crush, you’re never going to go out with them so what do you do?

Well, one of the things I’ve learned over the years about getting over that anxious hurdle is practice talking to other people. If you can get comfortable starting conversations with other people before you talk to your crush, it’s going to make it a whole lot easier. This is something I would do all the time whenever I go out with my friends and I see a girl I want to talk to. Instead of just cold…

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The Josh Speaks
The Josh Speaks

Written by The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com

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